Dad life and household money
Budgets, chores, cars, screens and school holidays. Written for a dad on an ordinary income who wants to know what to actually do about it this week, what it costs, and what it rules out.

No expertise claimed, and nothing here assumes you have spare cash lying around.
Start with the budget guides
You are not asking about regret out of idle curiosity. Something specific prompted it: a birthday that landed harder than usual, a parent getting older...

"Life is what you make it" is a claim about responsibility, not a claim about fairness. Strip away the poster-and-mug version of it and it says something...

You want one room, or one corner of a room, that is yours. The house is full of kids' things and shared decisions...